If you’re generous, find another generous person to love. If you’re a giver, don’t change. If you’re generous with your love, compassion and empathy, don’t change. These are amazing qualities. They give you strong character. Just learn how to balance it with boundaries. Learn how to give to yourself and stop over-giving out of fear. And start receiving instead of deflecting. So many people think there’s something wrong with them because we’ve somehow managed to pathologize even the best of trait